"Demas Hath Forsaken Me"
Jarrod Jacobs
Paul's words, "Demas hath forsaken me, having loved this present
world..." are familiar to most students of the Bible. Demas was one of
Paul's friends and companions (Col. 4:14; Phile. 23-24). He associated himself
with Paul, and other Christians. Have you
ever wondered why Demas "loved this present world"? What was he doing?
Paul did not reveal the specifics. However, there are lessons for us to learn
from this short verse. Demas is the example of all who have (or will) become
unfaithful to God in this life. When Paul said, "Demas hath forsaken me,
having loved this present world" we learn:
He Had Misplaced Love.
Demas loved "this present world"
rather than God. Though this is not an uncommon thing (even today, II Tim.
3:1-5, esp.v.4), it is still tragic!! Those who are Christians, must understand
that our first priority in this life is to love God (Matt. 22:36-40). Why?
Because He created us (Acts 17:24; Rev. 4:11), He sent His Son to die for us
(Jn. 3:16; Rom. 5:6-9), and He has given us a Bible to read and study so that we
might know God, and know He wants us to be with Him in Heaven (II Pet. 1:20-21;
Jn. 14:1-3). Besides the physical blessings (Matt. 5:45), God provides spiritual
blessings to those in Christ (Eph. 1:3).
The saddest part of II Timothy 4:10 is knowing that Demas was a partaker of
all these things and still turned away. Can we understand why this was so
foolish? Even in the face of persecutions and death threats, Demas and other
early Christians had it better than the richest Roman (II Cor. 4:17-5:1)!!
How many of us in this great nation forget all the great blessings that are
showered upon us by God?
He Rejected Christ As
King.
"This present world" ruled
Demas, rather than God (II Tim. 4:10; Rom. 6:16; Matt. 6:24; II Pet. 2:19). Let
us remember that when we put on Christ in baptism, we are declaring that our
life is not our own, and we live for Christ (Gal. 2:20, 3:27)!
Do we truly believe that Christ is King (I Tim. 6:14-15)?? If we believe
this, we will not argue or refuse to do what Christ tells us to do!! Who will
rule us? We will either serve God or sin (Matt. 6:24; Rom. 6:16). Look at who
ruled Demas (II Tim. 4:10)!!
He Crucified Christ
Afresh.
This is the result of Demas turning from
God and turning to the world (II Tim. 4:10; Heb. 6:4-6)! Peter said that
Christians who turn from God like Demas did are like a dog turning to his own
vomit or a sow that had been washed that then turned back to the mire (II Pet.
2:21-22). Hebrews 10:26-31 shows us that it is a fearful thing to stand in
opposition to the God of Heaven!!
His Influence Was Ruined.
Demas was once a good friend and trusted
companion of Paul (Col. 4:14; Phile. 23-24). While not everything is recorded
about Demas, we do know that he was known and had influence on the Colossian
brethren (Col. 4:14). He was known by Philemon, and had influence upon Epaphras,
Mark, Aristarchus, and Luke (Phile. 23-24). He also was known by Timothy (II
Tim. 4:10). In addition to this, there were untold individuals that were
influenced by him. His leaving the Lord had an impact on many.
Regardless of the reasons, Demas' influence for good was ruined when he
turned and left the Lord for worldly, sinful pleasures! (Ezek. 18:24, 26).
Modern-Day Demas'
Though Demas is dead, his attitude lives
in the hearts of men and women who turn from God and turn back to their lives in
sin! Modern-day Demas' are those who say and do not (like the Pharisees, Matt.
23:3-6, 6:5, 16). Modern-day Demas' are those who will not sacrifice the old man
(Rom. 6:3-6; Col. 3:1-10). They "resurrect" the old man and willfully sin time
and time again! Modern-day Demas' are "fair-weather" Christians. They are only
faithful to God when they "feel like it." There is no difference between them
and Demas (II Tim. 3:4).
Modern-day Demas' are those who forget who is the master and who is the
slave. Some think that they can simply "pick and choose" what they will obey and
leave the rest out. These people have forgotten the Lord who bought them (Rom.
6:16-18; II Jn. 9-11)!!
Conclusion
Are you on the verge of being a
modern-day Demas? The Bible says it is possible (I Cor. 9:27; Gal. 6:1; II Pet.
3:17). Though the Bible is not more specific than to say, Demas "loved this
present world," it doesn't have to be more specific. Anything that takes
our focus off of God is based in "this present world" (I Jn.
2:15-17)!!
An erring child of God can return to God if he or she has been unfaithful
(Acts 8:22; I Jn. 1:9). So long as we have this day, it is not too late to
return to the Lord! Don't harden your heart, and turn away from the
truth!!
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